Planning for your safety is critically important. Leaving an abuser can be the most dangerous time in a relationship. If you’re thinking about escaping an abusive relationship, the decision to do so can be difficult. You may feel ashamed, fearful, and helpless. Please know that you are not alone and there is support available for you.

When it is safe, call our confidential 24-hour domestic violence hotline at 619.234.3164. One of our YWCA counselors will help you develop a safety plan, understand your options, and connect you with resources, including shelter, legal services, and other support.

If you are in immediate danger, please call 911.